tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29191579.post468480289766088196..comments2023-08-16T05:36:02.314-05:00Comments on a revolution without dancing: He will rejoice over you with singingcrackers and cheesehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15903450123621135348noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29191579.post-50807934032330651202008-04-17T14:28:00.000-05:002008-04-17T14:28:00.000-05:00It's so good to hear you're doing so much better!H...It's so good to hear you're doing so much better!<BR/><BR/>Housing situations are so tricky. I recently had to turn down a girl who wanted to live here. I felt bad turning her down, and I'm pretty sure she took it at least a little personally, but in the end I had to turn down someone, and all I could judge on was first impressions. So, with all that said, I would say I know you're feeling vulnerable and especially prone to feeling rejected right now. But I would try very hard to not let that living situation issue with the girls taint your view of them. They could end up becoming awesome friends. Housing situations are so tricky and complex, and it is very likely that you don't know the whole story. So it's best to just let stuff like that slide off you like you're doing, and just focus on being happy in this moment. Over and over lately I've been finding myself obsessing over things that have bothered me in the past or things that might bother me in the future. What I'm really doing by obsessing over these things is stealing the joy from now, from this moment. When I realize this, I am able to see that in this moment I am at least a little happy and don't really have anything to worry or stew about.<BR/><BR/>Hope all that didn't sound too lecturing. It was mostly written for me and to express my experiences. Hope something resonates with you.<BR/><BR/>And I hope you find a lovely place and people to live with, and find the happiness that comes with being productive and living out your life dream (which you're doing!), and just being fun, lovely, fabulous, quirky, awesome YOU. You deserve to be happy every moment of every day, and I wish that in the darker moments I could take you to the park to simply sit and make cranes and laugh and hug and cry together. :) And if you get lonely this weekend, I'll be free to listen! *hug*The Pensive Poethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11543382066991071178noreply@blogger.com